Last night I had a little melt down. It was annoying. First I got frustrated over something I should have been able to shake off, but it just set me off. So then I cried, because when I get frustrated I cry. Then I think about all the other things I am frustrated about, and get even more upset. Then I get ever more upset because I’m so upset. It’s hard to be rational once the tears start. In the end, my mother said it was normal for me to be upset and feel overwhelmed by the whole wedding planning process.
Sometimes it just feels like it keeps adding up. I found out we had to add more guests, which is fine, but then I have to make and mail more invites.
I also found out I need to try to negotiate a change in a contract with a hotel to see if we can get the discounted price extended.
I ALSO need to plan something for an after party of sorts, but I need to talk with RoyBoy about this.
Plus, we are meeting with my aunt and uncle on Thursday- they are hosting the wedding and my uncle is performing the ceremony. So for Thursday, I need to be prepared to talk about the ceremony. RoyBoy and I need to discuss vows, the reading of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, and what we want for the ceremony. We have established that we want it to be short, and no communion/ candle lighting/ unity candle.
The big problem is that RoyBoy and I aren’t together. This makes him procrastinate, and it makes it harder in general, because we can’t just sit down and talk.
Long story not-so-short, I cried a lot and RoyBoy felt bad. The plus side is, the invitations got printed (my dad went out to Kinkos and printed them for me, since our printer apparently doesn’t do cardstock printing) and RoyBoy picked out ties for his groom's men. To think all it takes is some tears to get things done… just kidding. The headache and aggravation felt was so not worth it.
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